What does a “believer” look like?
Can we tell, with certainty, if another person is a believer? Did the eleven apostles know about Judas Iscariot’s defection? Not until it happened. Yet, Judas had been with them for three years during Jesus’ ministry. Jesus knew it, but they did not. Were all His disciples believers? John 6:64-66 “But there are some of you that believe not. For Jesus knew from the beginning who they were that believed not, and who should betray him. And he said, Therefore said I unto you, that no man can come unto me, except it were given unto him of my Father. From that time many of his disciples went back, and walked no more with him.”
You cannot know the certainty of another man’s salvation from your observations of external morality.* In Matthew 19:16-21, the rich young ruler came to Jesus suggesting that he had been a very good man and had kept God’s commandments since his youth. He asked Jesus what more he could do. Though he thought himself to be a good man, in the end, he went away sorrowful because his personal goodness was inadequate to bring him eternal life.
You cannot know a man’s eternal destiny from the amazing works that you observe in his life.* Jesus said in Matthew 7:21-24: “Not every one that saith unto me, Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdom of heaven; but he that doeth the will of my Father which is in heaven. Many will say to me in that day, Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in thy name? and in thy name have cast out devils? and in thy name done many wonderful works? And then will I profess unto them, I never knew you: depart from me, ye that work iniquity. Therefore whosoever heareth these sayings of mine, and doeth them, I will liken him unto a wise man, which built his house upon a rock:“
You cannot tell from their spiritual title or office* (Matthew 23:27&28). They may be a pastor, a deacon, a Sunday school teacher. That does not confirm their salvation in Jesus Christ. “Then spake Jesus to the multitude, and to his disciples, Saying, The scribes and the Pharisees sit in Moses’ seat: All therefore whatsoever they bid you observe, that observe and do; but do not ye after their works: for they say, and do not. For they bind heavy burdens and grievous to be borne, and lay them on men’s shoulders; but they them-selves will not move them with one of their fingers. But all their works they do for to be seen of men: they make broad their phylacteries, and enlarge the borders of their garments, and love the uppermost rooms at feasts, and the chief seats in the synagogues, and greetings in the markets, and to be called of men, Rabbi, Rabbi.” Matthew 23:1-6
You cannot tell from a statement or testimony of their moment of salvation.* Someone might say, “I know I’m a Christian. I remember the very day on which I prayed a prayer for Jesus to save me.” We might enjoy hearing that testimony, but it is not the proof of a regenerated (born from above) heart. In Luke 8:13-14, Jesus spoke a parable of the sower and the seeds (Matthew 13), where he described the seed that fell on rocky soil as those who heard and received the word with joy. He said that these are those who have “no root, who believe for a while and in time of temptation, they fall away.” He also spoke of seed that fell among thorns and was later choked with cares, riches and pleasures of life, bearing no lasting fruit.
We cannot tell with full certainty “who is a believer” and who is not. However, we can and should examine our own hearts.
In three of his letters to churches, Paul exhorted the people to examine their own hearts. We see this in I Corinthians 11:28; II Corinthians 13:5; and Galatians 6:4. Sometimes, it is an examination for sin in your life. Other times a person may find that he or she is not truly a believer. The examination is intended for good because a person may have the opportunity to deal with their sin or they might truly come to Christ. For example, in II Corinthians 13:5 Paul says to them: “Examine yourselves, whether ye be in the faith; prove your own selves. Know ye not your own selves, how that Jesus Christ is in you, except ye be reprobates?“
Don’t avoid an honest examination of your life. It may lead you a joyous life in Christ.
What is the testimony of your life? In many passages, the Bible describes what a true believer should be like. These things are not causes of salvation. These things are evidences of salvation that only you and God know for certain.
A true believer has an appetite and a love for God* (Psalm 42:1; 73:25; Luke 10:27). In Luke 10:27, Jesus admonished believers to “love the LORD your God with all your heart, soul, strength and mind and your neighbor as yourself.“
Believers should have an appetite for God’s Word* (I Peter 2:1-3). Peter wrote in verse 2: “as newborn babes, desire the pure milk of the word, that you may grow thereby.”
Believers desire to acknowledge and repent of their sin.* (Psalm 32:5; Proverbs 28:13; II Corinthians 7:10; I John 1:8-10) In Psalm 32:5, we see the example of David in this: “I acknowledged my sin unto thee, and mine iniquity have I not hid. I said, I will confess my transgressions unto the LORD; and thou forgavest the iniquity of my sin. Selah.” Is there, in your life, a pattern of dealing with your sin in the biblical way?
A true believer should have a desire to glorify God in everything they do.* Psalm115:1; I Corinthians 10:31
The Bible encourages a true believer to be often in prayer to God.* Luke 18:1; Ephesians 6:18; Philippians 4:6; I Timothy 2:1-4; James 5:16-18
The Bible says that a true believer will have a love for others* (I John 2:9; 3:14; 4:7). I John 4:7 admonishes us saying: “Beloved, let us love one another: for love is of God; and every one that loveth is born of God, and knoweth God.“
A true believer will have a desire to be separated unto God & from the world.* James 4:4; I John 2:15-17
A true believer will grow in their spiritual life.* (Luke 8:1-15; John 15:1-6; Ephesians 4:12-16) In Luke 8:15, Jesus spoke a parable of the sower and the soils saying that the seed that fell upon good ground bore fruit with perseverance. In John 15:4-5, Jesus calls Himself the true vine and believers are the branches. Those who abide in Him bear much fruit. Believers are fruitful because of the relationship with Jesus Christ and hence, they grow spiritually (Luke 8:15).
True believers are known by their obedience to God’s Word.* Matthew 7:21; John 15:14; Romans 16:26; I Peter1:2, 22; I John 2:3-5; James 2:20
A true believer will evidence a transformation in their life.* II Corinthians 5:17
So, can we be certain of the eternal destiny of people we know and love? No. We see their outward expressions and testimony. These may give us some clues, but God is the only One who truly knows the heart.
In I Samuel 16:6-7 Samuel is going to Jesse’s house to anoint the next King of Israel. When he sees David’s brother, Eliab, he was impressed by his physical appearance. Samuel supposes (vs 7) that this is the one he will be anointing as the next king, but Eliab is not the one.
We don’t know the hearts of men, nor do we know the final episodes of man’s life. Maybe the rich young ruler (Matthew 19:16-21) made a decision for Christ before he died. We don’t know.
If you claim to be a Christian, is your life demonstrating the characteristics that God’s Word speaks about?
Examine yourself.
Do you have a desire and a love for God?
Do you have an appetite for His Word?
Do you willingly acknowledge and repent of your sin?
Do you desire to glorify God and not yourself?
Do you often pray to God and seek His will?
Do you love others or is life primarily about “me”?
Are you separated unto God and from this world?
Are you growing in Christ and obedient to His Word?
Have you been changed – transformed by the indwelling Holy Spirit? “Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new.” II Corinthians 5:17
When you examine yourself, you will find a lot of imperfections. Don’t be discouraged. Follow the Psalmist’s pattern in Psalm 139:23-24: “Search me, O God, and know my heart: try me, and know my thoughts: And see if there be any wicked way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting.“
…let the word of Christ dwell (take up its life) in you richly…
Compiled by Byron, edited by Monty.
*From the MacArthur Study Bible appendix entitled The Character of Saving Faith; NKJV – copyright 1997 by Word Publishing, a division of Thomas Nelson, Inc., Used by permission. All rights reserved.