“God is a Spirit: and they that worship him must worship him in spirit and in truth” John 4:24.

Hebrews 11:1 describes faith as the substance of things hoped for (confidently assured of) and the evidence of things not seen. Because God is a Spirit, John 1:18a declares “No man hath seen God at any time”.  The triune God in his divine essence has never been seen by mortal flesh, but all men know he is there.  His law is written upon our hearts.  The heavens declare his handiwork and testify of God’s invisible presence which we see through the eyes of faith.

The source of faith is God.  Faith is a gift from God.  Romans 12:3 says that we are to “think soberly, according as God hath dealt to every man the measure of faith”.  Speaking concerning the distribution of gifts by the Holy Spirit, I Corinthians 12:9 says “to another individual – is given faith by the same Spirit”.  Hebrews 12:2 says “Looking unto Jesus (who is God), the author and finisher of our faith”.  

W.E. Vine’s dictionary of New Testament words defines faith as a firm persuasion or conviction based upon hearing.  “So then, faith cometh by hearing and hearing by the word of God” Romans 10:17. If you want to have faith or to increase the faith that you already have, then study the Scriptures with a willing heart.  Developing a strong faith is a process of growth in God’s word, line upon line, precept upon precept.

Faith is vitally important.  Faith is necessary to please our Creator. “But without faith it is impossible to please him: for he that cometh to God must believe that he is and that he is a rewarder of them that diligently seek him” Hebrews 11:6.  God desires to give the gift of faith to all men, but he will not give it to those who resist his Spirit.

Saving faith is faith which rests only upon Christ’s merit and work on the cross.  His once for all death, burial, and resurrection give us access to God’s gift of salvation.  Although our works do not factor into salvation, when one is saved or born again, works follow salvation.  James 2:20 says that faith without works is dead.  

II Corinthians 5:17 states “If any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold all things are become new.”  After a person is saved, the things or works that characterized his/her life as an unbeliever fade away and are replaced by new things or works that are characterized by obedience to Christ and His word.  Faith that does not produce “new things” is dead.

In our everyday Christian life, there should be a proper order concerning; what our faith is based upon, our faith itself, and our feelings.  The facts of Scripture always come first.  Our faith is built upon God’s promises, therefore our faith follows the facts of Scripture.  Feelings are last and should always follow in that order.

Sometimes as Christians we do not feel saved, loved, or secure in our relationship with God.  We must always remember that our faith is built on the facts of God’s word (God cannot lie), not our feelings. If we allow feelings to take the lead, our Christian life will take on the roller coaster ride that feelings often do.  We will become unstable and inconsistent Christians.

Hebrews chapter eleven is the “Hall of Faith”. The whole chapter is devoted to hero’s of the faith. There are many familiar faithful listed and some that may be  surprising.  

There are many results of faith.  When faith is properly placed we have access to salvation (Ephesians 2:8&9), peace (Romans 5:1), rest (Hebrews 4:1-3), joy (I Peter 1:8), understanding (Hebrews 11:3) and more. Check them out.

“The just shall live by faith” (Romans 1:17).  Faith is a way of life.  It is not a blind leap in the dark.  Faith is founded upon the truth of God’s word.  Faith’s objective is to know Jesus Christ and the power of his resurrection.  

If you are not a believer, you should know that “as many as received him (Jesus Messiah), to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them who believe on his name” (John 1:12).

Review “Walking in the Spirit” in this blog.  Submission for both husbands and wives is a characteristic of being filled (controlled) by the Holy Spirit.

Review “For Christian Husbands” to get the context of biblical submission for both the husband and the wife.

For wives, God provides only one word-picture concerning submission and it is found in verse 22 of Ephesians 5.  The word-picture is to submit unto your own husbands as the church submits unto Christ.  Please note that it says to submit to your own husbands.

• Remember, submission to one another is a characteristic of being filled or controlled by the Spirit.  For the Christian it is the result of yielding to God’s word and obeying it.  Biblical submission covers many more relationships than just the husband/wife relationship.  See Ephesians 6:1-9.

Submission is a necessary part of every day life for both believers and unbelievers.  Everyone must obey traffic laws, although some obey less than others.  Working people have a boss to whom they must submit or risk losing their job.  Government is an authority in most people’s lives and there are penalties for ignoring this reality. Authority and submission create an atmosphere of order and responsibility.

The presence of authority and the reality of submission do not make those who are submitting inferior.  When God the Son submitted to God the Father, His submission made the Son no less God than He already was.

• Those in authority over others have the greater responsibility.

Those in authority will give account for those under their care. They will give account for their decisions that have affected the ones under their leadership.

It is the husband and father to whom God has assigned spiritual leadership.  It is the husband and father who will give account for the spiritual atmosphere of his home and the spiritual training of his children.

Wives should help the husband maintain the spiritual atmosphere and spiritual training, but the wife should not assume this responsibility for the husband or enable him to shirk it altogether.

In my opinion, it is just easier for husbands to give up this responsibility.  Many wives will gladly take the spiritual leadership role from the husbands, but it may very well be at a cost.**

A popular family radio ministry recently put out statistics on how the children are affected when the father assumes spiritual leadership as opposed to when the mother provides the sole spiritual leadership.

The statistics show that when the father provides spiritual leadership, the children are more likely to follow his leadership as an adult.  The father’s role in this area is pivotal.

If the husband and father is a reluctant spiritual leader, the wife must be patient.  Know that God understands all situations. Although it may seem impossible for one’s husband to become a spiritual leader, with God nothing is impossible.  The wife should let God change her and God will use that to change the husband (I Peter 3:1).  Husbands should note that this also works in reverse.

• Read the book of Esther and take note of how she was used of God to save the Israelites from the scheming of Haman.  Did she make demands?  Was she patient?  How was her patience manifested?  How did she deal with the absolute authority of the king?
• Make a list of the characteristics of the church’s submission unto Christ (Ephesians 5:22).
• Meditate on ways to make the characteristics of the church’s submission to Christ, the characteristics of your relationship to your husband.
• Share what you’ve learned with someone else.
• Place the list in your Bible and periodically review and revise it, if necessary.

 ** The wife may be perfectly capable of providing spiritual leadership in the home.  She may have been a Christian longer than the husband.  She may be more mature spiritually.  She may know more Bible than her husband.  She may be a better teacher and reader when it comes to presentation and family devotions.  

Why not let her take the ball and run with it?  The answer is simple; it is not God’s order.

So what does a Christian wife and mother do if her Christian husband is not as well educated, gifted or spiritually mature as she?  Provide him with input and respect his decisions.

Even a fool will come to respect the consistent input and wise perspective of one who is always graciously supportive.

Note:  This is one article in a series which build on one another.  It would be helpful to the reader’s understanding to scroll back and review the previous articles in this series.

A key to identifying neo-orthodoxy is its view of the written word of God.  While neo-orthodoxy speaks the language of Scripture, it does not endorse what the Bible says about itself.  In it’s intellectual prowess neo-orthodoxy discredits the words of the Lord Himself (See Part III). 

The neo-orthodox remedy for it’s destruction of Christ’s credibility is to divorce the historical Christ from the “Word or Logos” of John 1.   The “Word or Logos” of John 1, detached from Scripture, becomes the Christ of one’s imagination.  

The Lord Jesus Christ warned that many would come in His name. The Christ of neo-orthodoxy cannot be the Christ of Scripture, because neo-orthodoxy’s Christ does not, by their own admittance, require the foundation and anchor of Scripture.  

Without the foundation and anchor of Scripture, anyone can make a Christ to their own liking.

It is clear in John 1 that the “Word or Logos” is God; “In the beginning was the Word and the Word was with God and the Word was God” John 1:1. 

It is also clear that the “Word or Logos” is Jesus Christ; “And the Word became flesh and dwelt among us, and we beheld His glory, the glory as of the only begotten of the father, full of grace and truth” John 1:12.  This is not the detached from Scripture Christ of the neo-orthodox; this is the Emmanuel of Matthew 1 “….which being interpreted is, God with us.”

It is clear throughout the Gospels that Jesus Christ endorsed the authority of the written word.  He quoted the Old Testament over and over again.  He resisted Satan’s attacks by rebuking the devil at each temptation with the declaration; “It is written…., it is written,….it is written!”  

Jesus Christ expounded the Old Testament repeatedly to the multitudes as He taught them.  He re-affirmed all of the Ten Commandments but one.  He constantly referred to the OT prophecies concerning Himself.  The Lord continued to expound the OT passages from Moses, the prophets, and all the Scripture concerning Himself, after His resurrection.  

“These (the Scriptures) are they which testify of me” He declared, “and ye will not come to me, that ye might have life.” 

Can a man declare his love for Christ in one breath and in the next breath deny His very words?  

• Let the Lord be the judge:  “If a man love me, he will keep my words: and my Father will love him, and we will come unto him, and make our abode with him.  He that loveth me not keepeth not my sayings:” John 14:23 & 24a. 
• Let the written word be the judge: “And this is love that we walk after his commandments.  This is the commandment, That, as ye have heard from the beginning, ye should walk in it.  For many deceivers are entered into the world, who confess not that Jesus Christ is come in the flesh.  This is a deceiver and an anti-Christ………..Whosoever transgresseth, and abideth not in the doctrine (teaching) of Christ, hath not God.  He that abideth in the doctrine of Christ, he hath both the Father and the Son.  If there come any unto you, and bring not this doctrine, receive him not into your house, neither bid him God speed; For he that biddeth him God speed is partaker of his evil deeds.” II John 6&7, 9-11.
• See also John 3:18, John 14:15, John 15:10, & I John 5:1-5. 

Did you know that the only sin that can send you to hell is unbelief?  See John 3:18.  All other sins can be forgiven.  

All marriages have difficulties, even the best of marriages. The truth of the matter is that good marriages don’t just happen. It takes work, and it takes commitment, two things that are sadly lacking where you would expect them the most, in a Christian marriage.

• The difficulty with “work” in marriage is that the wife or husband usually wants to work on the other person’s problem first. The focus of the married Christian should be working on one’s own problems first and foremost. 

It is impossible to change the other person but it is always possible, with God’s enabling, to change one’s self.  When focusing on one’s self under the probing light of God’s word with a yielded spirit and a willing heart, there will be change.

• The problem with “commitment” is the “we want it all right now” culture.  If it is not convenient, bail out.

Unless a believer is in the word of God on a regular basis and being transformed by the renewing of his mind as a life-long commitment, the culture will leave its mark.

A Christian cannot be neutral or passive in regard to the word of God.  If he is, he will revert to the thinking and values of the culture.  This is the tendency of indwelling sin (Romans 7:15-25).

A believer is never free of indwelling sin until he steps into glory; that’s why it’s a life-long commitment.  He can have victory over indwelling sin by reckoning himself to be dead to sin through Christ living in him (Galatians 2:20).  Even the apostle Paul had to die daily.

The solutions for marital difficulties lie in one’s relationship with God.  God will get the believer through any difficulty, but the believer must be true to Him and obedient to His word.

Working on self in cooperation with God, and a life-long commitment to one’s own spiritual growth, will bring the believer through any problems that are encountered in his marital journey. The key is getting the plank out of one’s own eye first, over and over again.

Character and self discipline are no substitute for godliness.

One can be a person of character and self discipline and still be ungodly.

One cannot be godly without developing character and self discipline.

Many years ago as a youngster I attended a Bible camp not far from home.  Another boy from our church attended as well.  The camp was in an area that is now a state park, lots of timber and a fair amount of hiking, nature trails and the like.

Near the end of our week there, we had an evening bonfire.  While everyone sat around the fire, we were encouraged to give our testimony of salvation.   Some kids readily shared that they were Christians while others held back.  I was one of those who held back until the other boy from our church gave testimony of having received Christ as his Saviour.

Hearing his testimony of salvation made me rather indignant.      Here was a kid who was an occasional church attender saying that he was saved; that he was a Christian.  I was in church every time the doors were open.  I mowed the church lawn and scooped the sidewalks during the winter.  I sang in the youth choir, helped clean the church and even participated in church services.  If he was saved, I was more so!

Well, I gave a testimony of salvation that night at the bonfire.  It was simply this: that I had prayed with my mom to become a Christian.  Actually, just about every night at bedtime my mom prayed with me.  My testimony was not about saving grace, but saving face.  For years I believed that I was as saved as the other guy because of the things I had done.

There were some fatal flaws to my thinking.  One fatal flaw was comparing myself to the other guy.  I thought that because I did all these church related things that I was somehow better than the other boy.  I thought that if he could be saved, then surely I had to be.

I didn’t understand that becoming a Christian has nothing to do with my deeds.  Salvation has everything to do with what the Lord Jesus did: dying in my place, paying for my sins, and then rising from the dead.  Salvation comes only through the merits of Christ, and not by works of righteousness which I have done.

People end up in hell not because of neglect to do or perform, but because they have not believed in Christ and His finished work as their only hope of salvation. 

Another fatal flaw was thinking that a prayer could make me a Christian.  Many mistakenly think because they prayed at some time in the past that they are now a Christian.

The litmus test of a true believer is not whether or not one prayed at sometime in the past but where one is spiritually now, today.  Is our life, as of this moment, characterized by walking in obedience to God’s word?  If not, we have to ask ourselves; why not?

Often people are told that if they have prayed the sinner’s prayer, they are now a Christian.  Simply repeating a prayer does not save. The act of believing on  and receiving Christ is what triggers salvation (John 1:12).  Many who point to having said a prayer are often no more spiritual today than they were the day before they prayed the prayer.  There has been no repentance (changing of the mind).  There is no evidence of saving faith or new life in Christ.  A pear tree does not produce apples, it produces pears.  A believer produces the fruit of the Holy Spirit not the fruit of sin.

The Scriptures say that a believer does not commit sin.  It also says that if we say we have no sin, we are liars.  Is the Bible contradicting itself?  If not, then what does it mean when the Scripture says a believer does not commit sin?  

It means that a believer cannot practice sin.  He cannot live a life that is continually characterized by sinful practice.  A believer is a new creature in Christ whose life is  characterized by obedience to God’s word and not by servitude to sin.

A believer is still capable of committing any sin out there, but he can never enjoy the pleasures of sin again or practice sin as a way of life. The indwelling Spirit of God will not let him.  The Holy Spirit is grieved by sin, which results in godly sorrow in the believer, until the sin is confessed unto the Lord.  

A lawyer practices law, a doctor practices medicine, an unbeliever practices sin, a believer practices obedience to God’s word.  What is the evidence in our daily living?  Have we experienced saving grace or are we just saving face?

…let the word of Christ dwell (take up its life) in you richly…

“There is a generation that are pure in their own eyes, and yet is not washed from their filthiness.  There is a generation, O how lofty are their eyes!  and their eyelids are lifted up.”  Proverbs 30:12 & 13

“Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God?  Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolators, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God.”

“And such were some of you: but ye are washed, but ye are sanctified, but ye are justified in the name of the Lord Jesus, and by the Spirit of our God.” I Corinthians 6:9-11

“And the publican, standing afar off, would not lift up so much as his eyes unto heaven, but smote upon his breast, saying, God be merciful to me a sinner.” Luke 18:13

“Come now, and let us reason together, saith the Lord: though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they be red like crimson, they shall be as wool.” Isaiah 1:18

“Have mercy upon me, O God, according to thy loving kindness: according to the multitude of thy tender mercies blot out my transgressions.”

“Wash me throughly from mine iniquity, and cleanse me from my sin.  For I acknowledge my transgressions: and my sin is ever before me.”

“Against thee, thee only have I sinned, and done this evil in thy sight: that thou mightest be justified when thou speakest, and be clear when thou judgest.”

“Behold I was shapen in iniquity; and in sin did my mother conceive me.  Behold, thou desirest truth in the inward parts: and in the hidden part thou shalt make me to know wisdom.”

“Purge me with hyssop, and I shall be clean, wash me, and I shall be whiter than snow.” Psalm 51:1-7

“That he might sanctify and cleanse it (the church) with the washing of water by the word.” Ephesians 5:26

“Not by works of righteousness which we have done, but according to his mercy he saved us, by the washing of regeneration, and renewing of the Holy Ghost;”

“Which he shed on us abundantly through Jesus Christ our Saviour; that being justified by his grace, we should be made heirs according to the hope of eternal life.” Titus 3:5-7

“…….Jesus Christ, who is the faithful witness, and the first begotten of the dead, and the prince of the kings of the earth. Unto him that loved us, and washed us from our sins in his own blood, and hath made us kings and priests unto God and his Father; to him be glory and dominion for ever and ever. Amen.” Revelation 1:5&6

Are you washed in the blood of Christ?

“Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them (wives) according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife as unto the weaker vessel and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered”  I Peter 3:7.

When the Bible says “weaker vessel” in reference to wives, it commands husbands to give “honor” unto the wife as the weaker vessel.  Weaker vessel with honor carries the idea of fragility combined with great value like a precious vase or a priceless painting.

Honor, according to WE Vine and the American Heritage dictionary, means to value, to highly esteem, to respect and to prize.   For the husband this means giving the wife an exalted position without lording it over her or ridiculing her.  

When Christ’s disciples argued over who would be greatest among them, Christ taught them that he who would be greatest would be servant of all.  The husband who is serious about being a spiritual leader in his home must have a servant’s heart.  He must lead by example, by doing, by serving.

Occasionally it’s hard to tell, between husband and wife, who is the weaker vessel, because some husbands refuse to do what they consider to be women’s work.  There are only two things that are truly women’s work: having  babies and nursing them.  Everything else is on the table for both husbands and wives.  A servant’s heart is not selective.

Often the husband’s priorities are not the wife and kids.  If they were, husbands wouldn’t be stepping over the wife’s still, exhausted body on the way out the door to unwind after a rough day at work.

The wife is the weaker vessel?  Husbands, do you really believe that?  If you do then gather the wife up off the floor and watch the kids for the rest of the evening.  Lay your troubles aside and engage the wife in adult conversation for an hour or so.  Don’t try to give advice, just listen and if necessary, make decisions.  

Husbands, give the wife the TV control and finish cleaning up the kitchen and folding the clothes for her when she needs a break. Ask the wife if there is anything that she needs to be done first,  before embarking on your agenda for the evening or weekend.

If you truly believe that women are the weaker vessel, then demonstrate man-strength by giving the wife a hand and by giving it with honor!  Quit debating with her.  Listen to the wife and address her concerns.  Quit demanding a following.  Quit trying to herd the family rather than lead it.  Quit wondering why no one will “king me”!  Get out front and lead by serving.  Your kids are watching.

Note:  

• Part of giving the wife honor is treating her with respect and ensuring that the children do the same.  Early in our marriage when the kids were quite young, I impressed upon the children, that an offense against their mother was an offense against me.  I rarely had to deal with disrespect.
• For those in Christian ministry, the family often becomes secondary in priority to the ministry.  In these cases the ministry is doomed to failure* unless priorities are corrected.  If the husband is not doing right by the wife his prayers will be hindered and if the children are not in subjection, the father and husband is disqualified from leading the church.  *Failure of ministry referred to here is not referring to fewer numbers, volume or scope.  Failure of ministry is the loss of God’s power to do His work biblically and therefore effectively. 
• A husband should not be all things to all women.  The only opinion that should concern a husband is that of what his wife thinks of him.
• A Christian husband who thinks of his wife as inferior to himself and who subsequently treats her this way, is not thinking biblically.   

Where do you go in the Bible to find out what the Holy Spirit is doing  in the lives of Christian believers?

The book of Ephesians is one of the best places in Scripture to study the acts of the Holy Spirit in the church today.  There is a lot of confusion in the church about His ministry.  The book of Ephesians with its many references to the Holy Spirit will help clear up much of that confusion.

Paul’s letter to the Ephesians is practical and clear in its expression.  It is down to earth but rich in the heavenly.

Remember this principle; do not base doctrinal teaching upon unclear passages.  Always build off of the clear teachings of Scripture. You will find clear teaching and clear application concerning the Holy Spirit in the book of Ephesians.

Read Ephesians through marking each reference to the Holy Spirit. How many references to Him can you find?  When you see the word “spirit” not capitalized, it will likely be a reference to the spirit of man.  The word “Spirit” capitalized is a reference to the Holy Spirit of God.

After you’ve marked each reference to the Holy Spirit, read the verse or verses over and over again or write them down on a piece of paper for study.  Each reference will teach you something special and different about Him.

Ask yourself what He is doing right now in your life.  How does the Holy Spirit’s work secure the believer in his relationship to God?   Who does the Holy Spirit provide access to?   What does He make of us for God?  What was His work in relation to the apostles and prophets?  What does He endeavor to do in the body of believers?

How many Holy Spirits are there?  How do we know that the Holy Spirit is a person?  How long are we kept by Him?  What is the fruit of the Spirit?  How is it manifested?  Who does the Holy Spirit want to control?  How is His control manifested?  What is the evidence of it?  What is the Holy Spirit’s sword?  How should we pray?

What is His ministry?  

The answers to all the above mentioned questions are found in the book of Ephesians and will define His ministry today in the life of the believer and in the body of believers which is the church.